Are you an expert in talking to a girl? No? Don’t worry, more than half of the men population isn’t. But that doesn’t mean you don’t need to improve yourself coz there are many guys who are more than just experts and you know that too.
You must have seen some of your friends being all friendly and cozy with their female friends and you keep on wondering what’s so special about that guy. Well, the thing is he knows how to talk to a girl, what words to say and what words not to say.
Not everyone can master the art of saying those exact words that will put him in a heaven full of pretty girls. But what everyone can excel at is what words not to say otherwise those words can land you in a pit hole of regrets.
I am posting this article because I know it can be difficult for us guys to go up to a girl and say anything we have in our heart for her. If we don’t know what words to say how are we going to have a chance to be with her. What’s even worse is what if you say something that is going to put you on the same ground level from where you started to move up to increase your chances? I’m here to save you from that hellhole. These tips are not just for single men out here but for all the men community.
1. YOU ARE FAT!
We all know women are always insecure about their weight. No matter how much you tell a girl that she is slim or even perfect, she will always think that she is still not that perfect kind of slim. And what’s even worse is you telling her, “yes you are fat”.
Boy if u said these words may god have mercy on your soul and brain for the upcoming heated arguments you are going to suffer through.
2. “ GIRL, JUST RELAX ”
The word ‘relax’ is actually going to make her think more about the situation which will dramatically reduce her chances of relaxing. The same thing is true for “calm down” and “chill”.
Remember when we were young if someone told us not to eat chocolate we would rather eat one in front of that person to show her that we can’t be controlled. Well, same goes for this situation too. Now you do have the idea.
3. YOU LOOK AWFUL IN THAT DRESS!
Boy, did u really had to? We all know women spends a considerable amount of time getting ready, so your these words are going to hurt her which you will obviously notice for the next few days. This also shows your lack of consideration which she wouldn’t take much time to figure out.
4. “YOUR FRIENDS ARE NOT GOOD”
It is okay not to like her friends but it’s not necessary to tell her that. The chances are she also doesn’t really like your friends but she is not telling you that because she knows what would happen otherwise.
If her friends are trying to jeopardize your relationship or reputation or influencing badly on her life decisions then you can tell her. Otherwise just keep your mouth shut for the sake of yourself.
5. “MY EX..”
Whether you are in a relationship with a girl or trying to be in one, don’t say anything related to your ex or previous relationships unless she asks you to and that too minimize your speech as less you can. If you want to compare different girls keep it up to yourself. Not everything needs to be said out loud.
So take care from now on while talking to girls. These are the best-known words you shouldn’t say to a girl. And never forget, BE YOURSELF, don’t try to imitate others. Now you know what you shouldn’t do. These tips can help you to not be the guy that no girl wants to date.
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